tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413185850990305097.post8157419264855304078..comments2023-10-24T10:02:07.295-04:00Comments on Just Talk: A Right To Be Mad?Danahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13297662034510134776noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413185850990305097.post-63392134231357909242008-06-19T22:56:00.000-04:002008-06-19T22:56:00.000-04:00Oh, man. I wish I knew what happened, too! Because...Oh, man. I wish I knew what happened, too! Because I'm nosy like that. But not in a snooping way.<BR/><BR/>As far as snooping is concerned, I agree with Tipp -- if you get the information by being dishonest, you have NO right to complain or be upset by it. It wasn't meant for your eyes.EPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08600424792398230829noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413185850990305097.post-49430448698642248162008-06-19T22:18:00.000-04:002008-06-19T22:18:00.000-04:00PS...love the bloggy make over. Very cute and sas...PS...love the bloggy make over. Very cute and sassy!Mama Smurfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18156035813578322910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413185850990305097.post-81961647511427696092008-06-19T22:17:00.000-04:002008-06-19T22:17:00.000-04:00I have no idea why that showed up as anonymous...b...I have no idea why that showed up as anonymous...but I'm not anonymous...I'm Tammy...<BR/><BR/>=)Mama Smurfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18156035813578322910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413185850990305097.post-17889791918349351782008-06-19T22:16:00.000-04:002008-06-19T22:16:00.000-04:00Ok...I have no comment as I've snooped in the past...Ok...I have no comment as I've snooped in the past myself...I'm not proud of it but I did...and I'm happy to say that I never found anything that angered me. Which is why we've been together for almost 17 years. <BR/><BR/>Now...You MUST find out what she found...seriously...I don't know this person but I will lose sleep over this...I.MUST.KNOW...<BR/><BR/>I'm sick...I know...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413185850990305097.post-79760328734712037252008-06-19T15:01:00.000-04:002008-06-19T15:01:00.000-04:00i think that whatever you find snooping you don't ...i think that whatever you find snooping you don't really have the right to mad about since you shouldn't be snooping in the first place. and you're really that curious about your significant other you should just ask them and trust them enough to tell you the truth.Katelinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15994241556437259884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413185850990305097.post-17792658699943553922008-06-19T14:06:00.000-04:002008-06-19T14:06:00.000-04:00It sounds to me like she is awfully insecure. I n...It sounds to me like she is awfully insecure. I never snooped around in Rich's stuff, even when we were first together because he didn't hide stuff from me. Is her boyfriend hiding something from her? He must be doing something to make sure suspicious. I wish I knew what she found.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413185850990305097.post-60847326634364419752008-06-19T12:47:00.000-04:002008-06-19T12:47:00.000-04:00I guess it depends on what she found. Yes, she sh...I guess it depends on what she found. Yes, she shouldn't have been snooping, but what she found might still be bad enough to get angry over. <BR/><BR/>I have been with John for almost 11 years, and I could care less what is in his pockets.Christyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00977781470147646616noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413185850990305097.post-19929691855718202992008-06-19T12:14:00.001-04:002008-06-19T12:14:00.001-04:00.... I didn't say I never did it! ;-).... I didn't say I never did it! ;-)Marni's Organized Messhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05158521136342223415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413185850990305097.post-70698336772003682152008-06-19T12:14:00.000-04:002008-06-19T12:14:00.000-04:00I think it totally depends on the information. Bu...I think it totally depends on the information. But she really shouldn't be snooping.Marni's Organized Messhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05158521136342223415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413185850990305097.post-2721301115552435912008-06-19T11:39:00.000-04:002008-06-19T11:39:00.000-04:00I'm a snooper. I admit it. (I've found bad things....I'm a snooper. I admit it. (I've found bad things...and one really, really good thing that ruined a surprise...) Email, voicemail, pockets. It's bad - I don't do it now that I'm married, but when we lived 3 time zones apart, I honestly had reason to. <BR/><BR/>It's interesting to hear other people's opinions. I admit I did it because I was curious, jealous, and found bad things in the past... <BR/><BR/>And I sure as hell would get mad if I found out something bad!! :)Ashley // Our Little Apartmenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13452050735921065657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413185850990305097.post-48147363556503408562008-06-19T11:10:00.000-04:002008-06-19T11:10:00.000-04:00Snooping to me usually means a lack of trust and d...Snooping to me usually means a lack of trust and definitely a lack of self-esteem. If we love someone we should respect their privacy. You know what they say about curiosity? It killed the cat. She's playing with fire. <BR/><BR/>If she does get mad about what she finds out, he has equal right to be pissed that she was a snoop.Sizzlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00182860438430294750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413185850990305097.post-29668510388402459122008-06-19T10:54:00.000-04:002008-06-19T10:54:00.000-04:00I look at it like this - she doesn't have a right ...I look at it like this - she doesn't have a right to be mad since she was snooping. If she is snooping there is most likely a reason and although it may not be a reason he gave her - it could just be the insecurity she feels from something in a previous relationship...SO she should be careful or she will screw up what she has with the current guy over no real anything.Amanda-The Family News!https://www.blogger.com/profile/06943711041849656799noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413185850990305097.post-24369537884217911402008-06-19T10:34:00.000-04:002008-06-19T10:34:00.000-04:00ok, this may or may not have happened to me, but i...ok, this may or may not have happened to me, but if you snoop, you shall find. trust me, happens everytime. tell her not to snoop- if she has doubts about her boyfriend she should be honest and tell him. now please beg her to tell you what she found, though! I WANNA KNOW! hahaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413185850990305097.post-27480497030715466412008-06-19T07:55:00.000-04:002008-06-19T07:55:00.000-04:00well, I would want to know too----because now I am...well, I would want to know too----because now I am so curious myself! ;)<BR/><BR/>I don't think she has a right to be mad because she is the one doing something wrong.Pamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07156212038739784644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413185850990305097.post-40399133662703875522008-06-19T07:09:00.000-04:002008-06-19T07:09:00.000-04:00I've been there before! I snooped on my ex all th...I've been there before! I snooped on my ex all the time and I had every reason too!!! I really think that she has a reason to snoop otherwise she wouldn't. My ex would lie to me all the time and that's how I found out by checking his email. That's how I finally found out that he took another girl to Vegas for vacation while we were leaving together. Of course dumb me took him back and he told me I could always look at his email, etc after that, so I did. I freaking caught him AGAIN cheating on me.Auburn Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05645676944053749550noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413185850990305097.post-19504868844462057352008-06-19T00:24:00.000-04:002008-06-19T00:24:00.000-04:00yeah snooping around is never a good idea..not to ...yeah snooping around is never a good idea..not to say Ive never done it in my life(woops) but not like that at all! I am def. curious about what she found though..hmm<BR/><BR/>But if she is mad, its not llike she can talk to her bf about it cuz then he'll find that she's been snooping..hmm..Suselhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08887868190413845247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413185850990305097.post-22061037907260527432008-06-19T00:20:00.000-04:002008-06-19T00:20:00.000-04:00Maybe you could dig around a little and find out w...Maybe you could dig around a little and find out what it was. I'm SOOO curious!! <BR/><BR/>She definitely sounds insecure in their relationship. When you're dating I don't think you have a right to get mad about something you dug around for...you'll end up looking a little psycho.<BR/><BR/>When you're married whats mine is yours and whats yours is mine. There shouldn't be anything to dig through and you shouldn't feel the need to dig. If you do then somethings up.<BR/><BR/>In short. No. She doesn't have a right to get mad. Now go find out what it was...KatBouskahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11556451375792958743noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413185850990305097.post-78665319529825857932008-06-19T00:11:00.000-04:002008-06-19T00:11:00.000-04:00I think if you aquire information by a dishonest m...I think if you aquire information by a dishonest means you have no right to be upset at people who you assume to be doing dishonest things or behavior. But that is just me and it has not happened to me and perhaps I would do something totally different in the moment, so I guess I don't really know!Tipphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10263099633061519938noreply@blogger.com