This is going to sound like it's me because everyone starts off "i have a friend" but I promise it's not! I have this friend from work who always snoops(goes through his phone, email, pockets, etc) on her boyfriend. Not because she doesn't trust him and not because she thinks he's cheating on her just because she is curious, so she says! I keep telling her to be careful because one day - if she keeps it up - he's going to see her snooping and get pissed... They have only been together a year and a half so I guess I can understand the curiousity. At that stage you are still learning about your significant other more and more every day. I've been with Brian for 6 1/2 years and though I know him front and back and could make his next move for him - I still find myself learning new things.
So anyway, my friend was telling me that when she was snooping she found something she didn't like! When I asked what it was she wouldn't tell me! (Maybe she thought I'd Blog about it - LOL!) She said it wasn't anything horrible - just something that mad her a little angry! Now my advice was that you can't really be mad because it wasn't something meant for you to see! Right? I also told her that there is a reason she is snooping - come on going through his pockets to see what you can find! I only go through Brian's pockets before the laundry because if I don't I usually have 30 screws or bolts that get washed and make loud noises - and once the machine gets started it's really really hard to get them out!
So here is my question: If you snoop do you have a right to be mad for what you find? (besides cheating, we all know that cheating gives anyone and everyone a right to be mad) I don't know is she really has the right when she shouldn't have been doing this in the 1st place, ya know!
P.S. - I really wish I knew what he did! I'm so bad.......
