Thursday, July 24, 2008

Angry & Sad!!

People don't understand that they should never say hurtful things behind your back because it always comes back around to kick them in the ass..
Last night I spent the night back and forth on the phone with someone who was letting me know that someone else had said hurtful things about me! And it's not the 1st time that someone has said things about me! But it is the 1st time that I confronted that person! You should have seen me, I couldn't take it anymore and I exploded.. I exploded not only because I was mad, but because I was hurt.. I literally felt my blood boiling.. By the end of the conversation I looked in the mirror to see my face beat red!!
I've never had that much of a rush of emotions.. I was angry and mad following by a rush of tears!!
I feel that my buisness is my buisness and no one elses... If I want you involved then I will ask your opinion - if I don't then so be it, right?
Well, obviously not!! People really need to learn their place.. I just don't understand why some people can be so hurtful!
I swear last night I felt like I was in high school all over again dealing with 10th grade Bull Shit!! I'm a very straight up person - If I have something to say then I say it - I don't cower behind someone else!
Pardon the rant and rave, but I'm feeling a little pissed... Hell, I'm feeling a lot pissed and a lot sad...

17 comments:

Amanda. said...

Pshh.

People really stink
sometimes, don't they?
Ugh.

I'm sorry you got hurt.
But I'm PROUD of you
for speaking up. Hollla.

And I hate drama...it never
disappears. And just when
you think you've escaped it,
it sneaks right back up
on ya'!

Hang in there, loveeee.

Mamarazzi said...

girl! i am 37 and that junk STILL goes on...it's lame. good for you for saying something i am glad it made you feel better!

HUGS!!

Auburn Kat said...

Gosh, this has happened to me too many times...I can't even count how many times. There comes a point when enough is enough and you do have to just confront them so good for you! I would tread very cautiously when it comes to this person.

I don't understand why people are so mean. Unfortunately there are just too many people out there that don't have good cores for one reason or another. It WILL come back and bite them in the ass...karma is a funny thing!

Anna said...

Wow, that must have felt good to stand up to them! I'm sorry you got hurt, but I'm glad you stood up to them! I've decided there will always be drama in life and it SUCKS!

Hope you have a better day today!!

Pam said...

I hate when stuff like that happens- like you said, it always feels like you are in high school again. Goodness, we are adults, can't we all just act like it? But anyway- I am super proud of you for standing up for yourself!

Sarah Elizabeth said...

Ew. I hate shit like that. It really does feel like high school when people act like that. Good for you for standing up for yourself and not backing down! I was afraid of confrontation once, but I have learned that it is much better to get things out in the open.

BTWs, I tagged you on my blog with the the Brillante Award! Pass it on!

La Petite Belle said...

unfortunately this behavior doesn't stop after high school. I'm like you- and it really upsets me when people say stuff behind my back. if i have something to say to them, i say it. when they talk behind my back instead of coming to me, it means they are either insecure or jealous, and it sounds like in your case this is what happened. im sorry you had to go through that!

SF said...

I'm sorry you're mad, sad, hurt, pissed, all of the above. as people has said before me, high school drama does not stop after high school. i guess it's part of life that I wish wasn't...I hope our comments can make you feel just a lil bit better

thatShortChick said...

i hope you manage to find a glimmer of goodness sometime throughout the day that will make you feel better.

THopgood said...

Good for you for confronting the guilty party! I'm sure they'll think twice before doing it again!

Marni's Organized Mess said...

{{{{Hugs}}}}

Katelin said...

seriously, some people are so ridiculous. you'd think they'd grow up eventually. but sometimes you just gotta let them have it and i'm glad you did. it's good to get it out there.

Christy said...

Ack! I hate high school drama. It is best just to get people like that out of your life.

Melain said...

Aww. I'm sorry some a-hole is messing up your week. I once had to confront a someone over something BIG and I got so upset that I broke out into a RASH all over my chest and neck! Confrontation is a bitch. I'm proud of you for taking it head on.

Lindsey and Adam said...

Girl, I so know what you're going through! Same thing happened to me just recently. People are so lame and they have no idea what they're talking about, am I right? :D
Found your blog through new mommy rant. Love it! I adore your background!!
Come on by and check us out sometime!
Lindsey :)

melanie said...

I went through something like this recently too. Women are just terrible. It's like so many of them never grew up and they still act like an immature teenager.

Ugh!

EP said...

I went through this a few months ago, and it was followed by the face redness and crying. Sometimes, people are so ridiculous. And while it's good confronting someone about whatever they've been saying, it's tough.

I hope you're having a better weekend! *hugs*