Wordless Wednesday

Lola & Daddy - Sleepy Time

Happy Birthday Baby

**HAPPY BIRTHDAY BRIAN**

At 10:33 am the love of my life was born.... I thank god every day for bringing him in to my life~

Happy Birthday Baby, enjoy your day!!!! I love you!!

I Alive

I'm alive and well.. I will hopefully be up and running tomorrow afternoon when I get my new and improved not broken laptop... I can't wait to reconnect with my google reader which I'm sure is overflowing with wonderful and amazing posts.....

I just wanted to give a quick hello and let you all know I'm doing good, just anxiously awaiting the new laptop!

I can't wait to Blog about Jon & Kate Plus 8, I still feel very sad and disturbed by the whole show last night! I won't say much more cause I want to blog about it...

Til then......

PS - hope everyone had an awesome Memorial Day weekend. Mine consisted of dinner and sleepover with Heather, dinner and sleepover with Mom, Dogshow, pedicure and lunch with Erika & Heather, and dinner date with Kim and Jon & Kate.

Brian was away all weekend. He was actually away since Thursday early morning. He went to the Indy 500 with some friends. They are all so crazy and actually rode their Harley's out there.. So currently I am I not only anxiously awaiting the arrival of my new computer but I am anxiously awaiting the arrival of my beautiful boyfriend.. I can't wait to giv him a big smooch and a really long hug. 5 nights, 6 days is a loooong time!!

R.I.P. My Darling Laptop

So today I had to say goodbye to my laptop.... I'm too tired to even get in to it...... But now I am without my computer for a lil longer...

On the other hand I soooo love my boyfriend... As I sat and cried on the phone with him because not only was my computer broken and not worth fixing but I had SUCH a BAD day at work and to boot I haven't been sleeping!! AT ALL!!! So a girl, PMSing with a bad case of insomnia just lost her computer = not a good thing!!

Anyway back to my wonderful boyfriend.. As I sat crying on the phone he told me it was ok... And that he had a surprise for me... He came home with a receipt for a brand new cstom built computer that will be ready next week!!

I'm lucky that Brian has some really great friends that seem to know everyone.. Brian's friend's friend owns a computer store and is an authorized Dell buyer who is going to build a new computer for me!! I really wanted to buy an Apple, but I don't have the money right now to afford that. I didn't even have the money to replace my old computer....

Anyway... This no good horrible day needs to come to an end! I an going to take 2 Tylenol PM and hopefully call it a night!

I'll be back tomorrow sometime to tell the rest of my story....

Till then.....

Settling In and A Slip of the Knife

Hello All!! I will say that the move is going well, and Brian and I are settling in nice. Today I had to go to work so my lovely boyfriend stayed home to finish unpacking more stuff and to wait for the Cable People and the Gas People. I will say that I am so totally excited that we now have DVR! Come on people, this is a HUGE deal for me. It's the 1st time I've ever had DVR and I can't wait to tape all of the shows I wanted to stay up for but was too tired. Or tape all of the shows that I wanted to watch but we had to go out. Or tape all of the good talk shows like ellen and Oprah that I want to watch but miss cause I'm working. Or tape all of the girlie shows I love and Brian dislikes!! Woo-Hoo for DVR!! Let me know so good shows I should add on, lol!!

We did have a little accident while moving. Or let me say I had a little accident. Little ole impatient me! Brian decided a while back to vurn a candle and to use one of my good plates to put the candle on. So when we were cleaning up our old place yesterday afternoon I was a little upset thinking the plate was ruined. He told me to run hot water on the candle and plate and it would peel right off.. So I ran the water on the plate and candle for a good 5 minutes when I noticed the wax starting to peel right up and off.. I grabbed the candle to see that the entire base was still stuck. So what do I do? I reached for the largest knife we have, which happened to be the only knife left in our old place, and I started digging the knife underneath the candle to try and pry it up when SLIP, the knife cut right through the tip of my thumb and right through the crease of my index finger... And all I have to say is OUCH!!!!! I cried, like I've never cried and felt so woosie at the sight of all the blood!! And to boot, we had NO bandaids, that's right NO bandaids cause I had already

packed everything up... Good job Dana!!!

I'm a little better today, though my finger is so completely swollen and my entire left hand is sore. One of the doctors at work looked at it today and told me it didin't look good and that if the swelling doesn't go down to get it looked at! So we'll see... I'll keep you posted..

This weekend Brian and I are going to make a few trips to Bed, Bath, and Beyond and to Home Depot, and to buy curtains/sheers for the windows so I will start to take pictures to show you our new place... You will for sure L.O.V.E. the view... I can hardly believe that while I'm sitting on the couch I can turn around and see the crashing waves of the and when I'm sleeping I feel the cool ocean breeze.. I will say that I am one lucky girl.... And my commute to work is only 30 seconds by car... I'm a really lucky girl!!!!!

FYI.........

Just wanted to let you know that in 13 days Brian and I will be moving in to our NEW, BEACHFRONT apartment!! AAAHAHHHHHAHAH..... It worked out!! I can't believe it worked out.. I'm usually not that lucky! And what's really great is that I am now only 2 blocks from work - so in the summer I can walk to work.. I was looking out the window by my office and I could see the top of my apartment complex!! So so so crazy, right? I thought I was really close to work before... Now I'm really going to be saving in gas big time.. I mean i only have a 30 second commute.. Oh my gosh I love it!!

Oh yeah, TGIF everyone... I hope you all have an awesome weekend..

Since my birthday is Tuesday Brian and I will be celebrating with my Mom on Sunday....Any plans for you this weekend?

Bye Bye Condo

So I think it's safe to say that Brian and I are NOT getting the condo. That's right ladies and gentleman, you heard me right! Some things went down over the weekend and my dreram of being a 1st time homeowner has no pretty much come to an end!!

We are now on the move to rent another, bigger place that is closer to both of our jobs for another year or so and then revisit the idea of buying something!!

I cried yesterday for about an hour straight before drowning myself in Cosmos.. Which by the way made me feel SOOOOO much better. I know whats meant to be is meant to be and something better will come our way, I get it, i really do - I just wanted it. I figured getting this place would help us move right along the right path to happily ever after ya know?

But Brian said it best he said, "It's not where you come home to ever day after work it's who you come home to!" That instantly made me feel so much better. Cause I know I'd rather live in a cardboard box with him then live anywhere else without him!!

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Holidays

So this holiday season has me very excited! I am so looking forward to a much needed and much deserved break from work!!

So.. today I am off to work for about a half day of training at the hospital.. Things are going great! I had a much better day yesterday. I got to interact with the kids and really started to settle in(a lil).

After work I have to go home and pack up the presents ansome clothes and then run just a few errands before I head to my mom's house for dinner. My brother Chris and his wife Heather are in Jersey from Baltimore for the holidays!! I am looking forward to spending time with them and my Mommy!! we will have dinner at my mom's house and then all spend the night and wake up together Christmas morning....

Usually Christmas Day we all (my mom, brother, Heather, my grandparents and I go to my aunt's house and have dinner with my cousins). But since my cousin Andrea just had a baby and isn't scheduled to come home from the hospital until today we have decided to stay home this year and have a quiet dinner... I am looking forward to this.. It's going to be nice to not have to rush around and get ready to leave.. I'll be able to hang around in my PJ's and chill on the couch for a good part of the morning!!

After my house I go to Brian's parents house for a 2nd dinner/dessert and celebration with his family..

And then comes my favorite part....... Brian and I go back to our place and exchange presents late night, sit by the tree, and watch movies and just enjoy being together.. It's almost like our own personal Christmas Celebration!!! It's kinda of a tradition... and I love traditions...

Merry Christmas Eve to all!!!!

What do you have planned this holiday season?

Brian's Q & A Part 1

Hey Guys.

Thanks for taking the time to ask me some questions. Dana really enjoys her Blog and I'm happy to be a part of it.

Let's get to it.

The first question was asked by Andrea. She asked "what's your favorite thing about Dana?"

**That's a tough question. I love everything about Dana... But I really love her personality. She's fun loving.

Next, that Short Chick asked "besides riding around on your motorcycle, what is/are your favorite hobbies?"

**I don't think I have many hobbies anymore.... Probably watching movies, detailing cars and my motorcylces. Spending time with my friends at the Gym...

Future Mom Heather asked, "if you had 3 wishes what would they be?
1. To be wealthy.

2. To stay healthy.

3. To be in a position where I would be able to help those that weren't as fortunate.

Amanda asked, "What nickname do you have for Dana?"
**We call each other babe, baby!! And Hodgie - don't ask... it's a joke!!

"What nickname does Dana have for you?"

**Bri, Babe, Baby...

"If you had to dress-up as a Disney character and walk around the park all day...who would you choose?"

**Buzz Light Year. I think I would relate most and my personality suits him best. He is most easily relatable to my personality!


Lori asked, "if you could travel anywhere... where would you go? "

**I could make my way to the French Riveria or any other place in the world but I would want to go the Moon and look back on Earth! Very few people have been there and tt seems dangerous and scary!

"what is your favorite meal that Dana makes?"

**Chicken with Artichoke Hearts and Potatoes!

And Matt asked, "What do you think about Dana having a blog?"

**I think it's nice. It's a healthy way to spend down time and exercise writing and imagination.

And, "So how did she mention it to you?"

**Shy & Embarrassed she said "guess what? I'm a big dork, I started a blog." She assumed that I imagine all people that blog are dorks. But I think it's a very fun way to pass down time and a great hobby! I'm happy she has it!!

Thanks again for all of your great questions..

Stop by tomorrow and check out my Q & A Part 2!!

Have a good day!

Ask Brian - Q & A

OK.... so lately some of you have been asking if and when Brian would do a guest post?!? I talked to him and thought it would be fun to do a question and answer type thingy!!! I thought that could be very fun and very,very interesting!!! So it's up to you guys! What do you want to know about Brian? Ask away!! He'll then sit down and answer your questions! YAY!!!

And hey, if you're a faithful reader but never comment here's your chance to leave a comment and ask Brian anything??

We're really looking forward to hearing your questions....

So what are you waiting for????????

Why I Love My Boyfriend

Here are just a few reasons why I love Brian.. I could have gone on forever!

~He rubs my feet when I don't feel well.

~He makes the best pancakes.

~He is great with children.

~He defends me even if I'm wrong!

~He still gives me butterflies.

~He always picks out the best movies to watch.

~He irons my clothes.

~He dances with me.

~He holds my hand.

~He always drives when we go out.

~He holds me extra tight when I'm upset and wipes my tears away.

~He tells me the truth.

~He loves me for exactly who I am, flaws and all.

~He's fun.

~He is handsome.

~He's funny and knows how to make me laugh.

~He can laugh at himself.

~He is a great friend.

~He loves my family.

~He is a great son and a loving brother.

~And most of all because he is an amazing man with a great heart.

Mom For A Week

So I'm playing Mommy this week.. Brian's parents went away for their annual trip to the Bahamas(to the Atlantis - have I mentioned how jealous I am, LOL) so Brian and I are staying with his little brother. But I have come to realize that his little brother isn't so little anymore!! He was in 4th grade when I first met him and now he is a senior in high school..I can hardly beleive how fast time really does fly!

So I've been cooking and doing the laundry and just making sure the house is in order! I even helped him apply to 2 colleges so far... We have 3 more to go!! His brother is old enough to be independent just not old enough to stay alone for a week by himself. Even though he is an awesome kid and so not a trouble maker, he's still at that age where they can get themselves in to trouble!! And that is something we don't need...

But I actually love staying at his parent's house! It's so nice - and spacious compared to our little apartment!! And they have an amazing Jacuzzi Tub I can soak in after a long, hard days work!! Nothing better then a glass of wine and a bubble bath right?

The only thing that kinda stinks is that work is about 40 minutes away so I get less beauty sleep in the AM.. But it's ok - i don't mind....So i'm looking forward to Friday afternoon so I can had out the candy to the trick or treaters and help his brother get ready for his Halloweeen Bash!! I like the change of scenary every once and awhile!!

Nervous Wreck

See that beautiful Harley? I fear that it has become my worst enemy! But you see we have a love hate relationship!! And it's not because Brian loves to ride; I love and I mean L.O.V.E. to ride with him!! BUT, yesterday he went out for some riding brigade, or whatever it may be with like 20 other people.... Sounds fun right? Right, unitl he called and left me a message saying that someone they were riding with fell!! OMG!!!! Apparently the guy took a turn too wide and the bike fell out from under him and it flipped over him and went flying into the woods!!!! The guy was ok - just banged up; so was the bike.. YIKES!!!!

Now this is another thing I have to worry about!! Brian is a very, very skilled rider and he knows what he is doing and he is very careful!! I known that it won't happen to him....It's just the "what if" that bothers me!!! What if, what if, what if..... Grrrr..... Cause that's what I need!!!

Maybe i'm just nerotic!?!

Wordless Wednesday

That's Just Not Me

According to Webster's New World Dictionary & Thesaurus the word ultimatum means - a final offer or demand, as in negotiations.

Yesterday Brian & I were together for 7 years. I know what most of you are thinking, 7 years - where's the ring!?! Are you guys gonna get married?

I will tell you one thing - I'm happy; very, very happy! Do I want to get married? yes!! Will it happen? yes!! Am I going to give him an ultimatum? NO!! That's just not me!

I'm not one of those girls that will do that - and I know some of you may be thinking - you're getting older, you've been together for such a long time, yada yada yada!!! And It's easy to say it if your looking from the outside because it doesn't directly affect you! But things are much easier said then done!

What I do know is that I want him to propose to me because he wants to, not because he feels forced to because I might leave him! Who wants that? I know I don't! I know that I want to feel wanted! Who wants to look back and say - "my husband proposed to me because I put the smack down and gave him an ultimatum!"

You'll never know if he really wanted to marry you - or felt pressured to marry you!! When it happens it'll be right!

I think once I land a better paying job and Brian sells his building things will start to come around for us! It's hard because I've been getting hit in all different directions with the question "when?" "When is it going to happen?" And like I mentioned before, if I knew I'd let you know! People don't realize it's a little offensive - If I knew don't you think I'd share that info!?! And besides it's putting "getting engaged" on my brain!! Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr............

Happy 7 Baby

7 years ago today Brian and I got together! And what a great 7 years it's been!! It feels like just yesterday!

I am lucky to have a wonderful man that I love who loves me back!!!

Happy 30th Birthday Brian

Happy 30th Birthday Baby! You're my best friend and I love you very much and wish you nothing but the best. May your 30's be filled with fun, happiness, laughter, and love!

Happy Birthday

Off To AC

I am off to AC for the night with Brian and our friends Erika & Steve.. I am sooo excited.. We are staying overnight at Tropicana Hotel & Casino.. We have tickets to see The Dark Knight in IMAX!! (I hear it was even better in IMAX, YAY!!) And then we have 8:30 dinner reservations, followed by a night a drinking, laughs, gambling, and plain old fun with good friends!

In the morning we are going to get roomservice breakfast and head home because Monday finds me back at work... Eeckkk....

This really is my last weekend of complete freedom.. I can't believe that a new school year is here - I soooo thought I'd be in a different situation!! Hopefully some time soon!!

Wish me luck - maybe i'll hit it big on the slots and can take the year off to find a new job - lol -YEAH RIGHT!!! I'm not that lucky...

The 30th Surprise Birthday Party

OK.... So I have been M.I.A. a lil - but for good reasons... As most of you already know, Saturday I gave Brian a Surprise 30th Birthday Party for all of our friends and family! I was sooo busy prior to the party.. Setting up, cleaning, cooking, running errands, and much much more..

I had the party at Brian's parent's summer house that sits right on the bay! I invited 80 people( only 10 couldn't attend)!! His mom and I catered the party and even hired 2 waitresses to help with the food and the clean-up!(I will say that was the best thing we did and I recommend it to anyone having a big party like that at their house, it really, really helps).

So - Brian thought we were going to his parent's house for a plain old family BBQ... Little did he know there were 70 people waiting to celebrate with him! He was in complete shock and completely surprised when we walked through the back gate and everyone yelled surprise!!

A great time was had by all, especially the Birthday boy and myself.. I love him so much and was so excited to give him the best birthday ever - a birthday that he completely deserved surrounded by everyone that loves us!

Check out the pics below:

His face in this picture is so priceless!

He still couldn't believe it!


Us in the backyard!




Checkout his birthday invitation!! Made by InvitationsByHeather.com















The photo collage I made for him!





The banner I made for him!

Eliza & Aunt Dana

Eliza & Uncle Brian
Danielle(from New Mommy Rant) & I

My Beautiful Family

The cake I designed!

Make a wish!!
Yumm-O Cake - Chocolate Cake with Cannoli Cream filling and buttercream icing!
Cake in the face!

Brian's Family!

My WONDERFUL friends
Daddy (Pete) & the most beautiful baby!
Brian getting roasted by his cousin Michael
Hi Heather!

Brian's family

Opening presents!!!
Lots of presents!!